Do you wish men saw you as desirable? Does it seem like only the beautiful, thin, young sexy girls get all the great guys?
If men are only attracted to the hot girls and you are not hot, you don’t have a chance, right?
Wrong.
The big secret: Everyone is hot to someone.
But, you say, the proof is undeniable. Think of the last time you were out. Which girls were the guys chasing? The above mentioned thin, young ones, right? Not necessarily.
Have you ever looked closely at some of the women who have found their match? Why do you see some men with very ordinary looking women? What is their secret?
A man cannot resist a woman who KNOWS she is desirable. Men read that confidence as sexy and want to know more about her.
If you see yourself as small, weak, dumb or plain You look needy and insecure. Men read that as childlike. [Soulmate Attraction Tip: Not all men are turned off by the victim vibe. Men who like this kind of girl sweep in to rescue her and end up trying to parent her or control her. These relationships never work.]
If you have “childlike” beliefs about yourself, a strong and successful guy isn’t going to pick you. It is like you are invisible to him and he likely will look right past you.
Great, you say, but how do you stop acting and thinking like a kid when it comes to love?
Good question. Here is what to do:
How To Spot Childlike Beliefs That Could Be Keeping You Single
- You pick a friend to help you.
- You ask the friend, “Do you think I am too hard on myself?”
- You listen.
- You ask the friend, “What do you think that I am good at?”
- You listen.
Your friend has just given you a road map.
How do you feel when your friend lists your strengths? If you feel weird it may be because it does not feel true. But just because it feels false doesn’t mean it IS false. Your childlike belief fights you because it is strong.
Now you can see how different you see yourself compared to your friend. Do you trust your friend? Do you want men to like and want you? Great! You now have a list of good things about you. Next step is to see yourself like your friend sees you.
If you have followed me for long, you know I love EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique). It is easy to learn and is my fave tool for taking apart those problem thoughts that keep you believing that you are small, weak, dumb or plain. (Still doubtful? Go back and read the list your friend gave you.)
You can do EFT by yourself. All you need are the basics. And the list your friend helped you make.
Ready?
Join me this Tuesday night at 6 pm pacific and learn Basic EFT for Soulmate Attraction.
EFT Cupid Training Call
Topic: How To Feel Desirable
Date: Tuesday November 18
Time: 6 pm pst/9 pm est
Call In Info: Sent to you after registration
RSVP: Click Here
Your friend has just given you a precious gift. Give her or him a big hug and commit to them that you will work on seeing yourself as strong, resilient, smart and attractive in your own way.
Then register to practice your EFT!
See you on the call… Register right here and you will get notice of all EFT Soulmate Attraction Workshops.
