Don’t let your lovely Saboteur hoodwink you into believing that you have 
too much to do to attract True Love!
If your Love Manifesting Action Plan is at the bottom of the to do list then one has to wonder…are you in Problem Mindset or Solution Mindset?
Your Problem Mindset is like a bully, pushing itself into your mind all the time and crushing your spirit. Does this sound familiar:
1. I am not going to settle.
2. I won’t do online dating
3. Why is it so easy for other women to find The One.
4. I am tired of doing all of the Law of Attraction stuff, it’s just not working
5. All the great looking guys are either taken or gay.
The problem with the Problem Mindset is that it sucks you into a pool of self pity that won’t let go. Your friends can’t talk you out of it. Your mom can’t guilt you out of it. Your age can’t scare you out of it.
Only YOU can choose your way out of it. That’s right CHOOSE. If you are drowning in singleness waiting for Prince Charming to toss you the life preserver, stop right now. CHOOSE to develop a Solution Mindset.
And don’t do it alone. Find a coach, counselor or therapist to support you. Take control of your love life. You deserve to be on your own side in all of this. Take the time right now, before another month goes by.
The cool thing is that when you ask the right kind of questions, your brain goes to work for you. Your brain is a SOLUTION FINDING MACHINE and thrives on questions. Try these on for size:
1. What is the least amount of time I need to spend every day to get real results?
2. What is the most powerful exercise I can do to motivate myself?
3. What are signs of progress to watch for?
4. If I am not dating, how can I practice my love manifesting skills?
5. How can I tell if my deal breakers are helping me or hurting me?
The very fastest way to see progress in your soul mate search is to ask clear and concise questions. If you have a coach, she will always personalize your experience for you and help you find the easiest way to create great questions.
But even if you are on your own…the right questions will always work to trigger your brain to help you find the next logical step and that is all you ever need to look for.
Not any questions though, no poor me questions! Solution oriented questions are the ones that hold the magic. What do you need to know to magnetize yourself to love today? This Week. This Month. This Lifetime.
So ask away. Just make sure you are in a SOLUTION mindset…then you will see real results!
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