I have noticed that “The List” is a controversial issue among my dating clients. Some 
believe in the power of the list and swear by it and others have written so many lists and tossed them out that they are fed up with the idea.
In the Soul Mate Secret, Arielle Ford’s chapter on writing THE LIST is very practical and I highly recommend you re-read it. In fact, I am using that very chapter to set up an international Supermoon Soul Mate Manifesting Ceremony for tonight, November 14, 2016.
Here is how to be part of the ceremony and remember, there is huge power in numbers. The more of you who participate in the ceremony the stronger the impact for all!
1. Read this list of attributes and choose the ones that are really important to you. These traits and attributes are from Arielle’s book:
Abundant
Nurturing
Playful
Sensual
Sexual
Smart
Spiritually Open (or name your
religion or belief system)
Successful
Supportive
Talented
Intelligent
Honest
Loving
Emotionally Healthy
Physically Healthy
Self Secure
Giving
Attractive
Sweet
Physical Chemistry
Sense of Humor
Great communicator
Easy Going
Appreciative
Flexible
Adorable
Creative
Affectionate
Considerate
Articulate
Emotionally Available
Beautiful
Endearing
Bubbly
Enjoys _____(your dogs,
eats, travel, etc.)
Caring
Family Oriented
Funny
Generous
Happy
Healthy
Independent
Loves to______
Loving
2. Choose a beautiful piece of stationary and write out your list in an affirmative form. This is the letter from Arielle’s book, The Soulmate Secret.
I, Leslie Ann Leeds*, give thanks to God, Goddess or All That Is for my beloved soulmate. I am grateful he is single, straight, and available for a healthy, loving, committed, life-long relationship. He lives within 50 miles of San Diego, California or is willing to move here. He is an intelligent, loving and honest man who is emotionally and physically healthy. He is and extremely kind, sweet, fun, secure, attractive man with whom I have great sexual chemistry.
He is successful, abundant, giving and easy going and practices gratitude on a daily basis. He is a great communicator and we have a happy and comfortable life together. As I savor the waiting for his impending arrival, I relax in the peace and comfort that we will soon be together. And so it is.
3. Prepare to burn or shred your list and offer your heartfelt desires to the Universe’s timing and delivery. Use a metal bowl and be safe. Watch as your list burns and see it as supernatural GPS. You are registering your desire into the heavenlies and making a way for your man to find you. Being under the light of the Supermoon brings power to your intention!
4. Release your ashes into a body of water or bury them in your garden to complete the ceremony. At this point, thank the Universe for all of the other soul mate manifesters that are doing the same thing for this full moon. Be thrilled for all of us as we become more magnetic to love!
5. Start a list of the gifts and other pieces of evidence that will be coming your way. Write down all the positive things that come your way. People will offer to buy meals for you, you will receive coupons in the mail, or you may find money in a forgotten pocket. The Universe is always giving…are you noticing?
Arielle swears by the list and the treasure map. She was a first time bride at 44. Following her steps has resulted in hundreds of marriages. Join us tonight as we use the powerful energy of the full moon to release your dreams for love into the abundance of the Universe.
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Arielle also mentionned in a recent blog, not to put too much information about a soul mate so that the universe can also deliver someone who is compatible- and so that we get someone for our highest good- what we want might not be what we need- it is fair to want important qualities like those mentionned, however some aspect needs to be let to the universe, or else we could manifest a lack of what is truly rewarding in life. gracefully, Grace