I recently got this in an email “Does my Inner Being know what I want?”
I love this question. I would ask this back…Do YOU know what you want?
Look at some of the answers I get to this simple question:
Do you want to be married?
- “I’m really not sure.”
- “Well, not right away, but if something ended up there, I would be ok with it.”
- “I kind of want to but if I met a nice man who didn’t want to, that would be ok with me.”
- “Not that important to me.”
- “I never really thought about it.”
Your mindset is keeping you from making a clear decision on exactly what you want. That is the best way to sabotage your way to love, friendship and romance. If you are not sure about what you want, you will get back a constant thread of “unsureness” and never truly relax. A deep fear of being disappointed may be keeping you froma making any clear decision.
How did I get so smart? I lived for years compromising everything trying to protect myself from being disappointed. Nothing worked. When my first marriage ended, I made a decision. I decided to find out why I felt so unsure about love. Lots of people told me they loved me, but I never felt sure about it for myself.
Learning what it felt like to be out of alignment was a first step toward manifesting your own soul mate. I was able to stop blaming the people who had hurt me and deal with the pain they were a part of. It was life changing. I felt lighter and lighter as I went along. It was such a relief to stop thinking about all that drama and trauma.
Have you have been indecisive about what you want in love. Today is the day to change that. Make a decision to want what you want. Be honest with yourself and want the biggest and brightest future you can imagine.
If wanting your Secret Heart’s Desire is too painful and makes you feel sad or frustrated, reach out and get some help. The ache of a still broken heart is not a position of power when attracting New Love.
Decisions bring strength. Your mind loves decisions because then it can go right to work creating the ideas you need to move you forward on your way to your future. Change is possible and when you are feeling way off….a little down, low energy, crabby, constricted…you are out of alignment. Nothing personal, you just need to get yourself back into harmony with yourself. It is a sure call for a course correction. When your most heart felt desire matches your core vibration, you always feel wonderful, energized and hopeful. There is excitement in what is possible and good things flow your way.So does your Inner Being know what you want? Of course. And the really excellent news is that when you get what you really really want (Yes, that is what your Inner Being wants too) it feels better than you can imagine.
What do you really want in your ideal relationship outcome? Be bold and decide to have it. Then set your mind to do what needs to be done to raise your vibration to match that desire. You can do this. It is not possible to dream too big of a dream for yourself.
Ready to check out your Core Vibration? For a very limited time, I will still be offering the Love Magnet Readings. Soon my staff will be taking over this part of the process but I do have a few spots left in August available. To find out how strong your Love Vibe is, click reply and we’ll get you on the calendar.
To Friendship, Romance and Love,
Catherine
