How would you like to get faster results when it comes to using the Law of Attraction to magnetize yourself to True Love?
Right now I'm putting together some tools that will help me get faster results with my soul mate seeking clients. I want to make sure my vision for the client's Love Attraction Skills match their own vision, and that together, we intentionally work towards manifesting the long-term goals and dreams (as opposed to a session by session "let's see what happens next" approach).
One thing I am considering is to have my clients fill out a questionnaire to give me a bird's eye view of who they are and what they want when we begin working together.
I'm gathering my list of questions, so I thought I'd ask you: What would you like me to know? If you were my client, what are some things you'd like me to know in order to get you the Love you are looking for?
Could be about your goals, could be about your expectations from an coach or the style of communication that works best for you. Anything.
I really appreciate any and all feedback! And have a good weekend!![]()
I really appreciate any and all feedback! And have a good weekend!
If you are using Law of Attraction it doesn’t have anything to do with what “you” are doing to “get them” their “lover”. It only has to do with what they are and are not doing and what they do and don’t want.
So, what is your true question?
Hi Catherine,
Here are few things I think a coach or counselor should know about a client to ensure effective counseling:
1. Major childhood events (good and bad)
2. Relationship history (including number of years as single adult)
3. Relationships with unhappy endings
4. Worst breakup
5. Client’s goal (e.g., getting over a particular breakup, stop obsessing over a man who is not interested, finding a romantic partner)
Cheers,
Brit
Hi Cat
My questions would be:
1. What is the one problem you find yourself running into time after time?
2. Did you have this problem with one of your parents?
3. Can you see that this may be the source of this problem, and that this may be the way all of these problems work?
4. Could you then accept that you are not doing anything “wrong” but just doing something you have been taught by your circumstances?
Trusting that you can use this 🙂
Nina
A Love Coach Should Know:
1] the client’s expectations
2] the client’s previous relationship experience
3] the client’s level of emotional intelligence or self-awareness
4] any previous emotional/energy work that the client has done in the past
Hi Brenda,
When people are frustrated because the Law of Attraction does not seem to be working, they will often seek mentoring to figure out what is going on. In that situation, the ache they are feeling for True Love is the gateway to success.
In the consultation stage, my beautiful Soul Mates in Waiting clue me in on what they have been doing to find love, how well it has been working and then I can let them know if I have the tools they are looking for.
Understanding not only the Law of Attraction, but all of the Universal Laws expands the dreams of what is possible for the long time single woman who, in spite of all, will not give up on LOVE!
I love transforming Lonely Hearts into Heart Throbs and this info definitely helps me create the magic!
Thanks for the thoughtful question!
Love,
Catherine
Hi Brit,
Thanks for the feedback. I agree…this info is helpful. I also use my Saboteur Survey which helps me identify the sabotage style of my clients. Your suggestions are great!
Love,
Catherine
My relationship patterns and i would like for you to know who i am and what i want 🙂
Janita 🙂
Hi Catherine,
One further thought on this. I think that in coaching/counseling situations, people often just want someone they can share their worries and bad feelings with, someone who does not play any other role in their lives, someone who cannot use that information against them later, someone who is there when they need them and who will keep everything they reveal a secret.
Cheers,
Brit