Isn’t it time you DID give a damn?
Ladies, it is my pleasure to introduce you to True Love Saboteur Scarlett O’Hara: 
- Beautiful but probably wouldn’t describe herself that way
- Talented and over achieving
- Is seen as stronger than she truly feels
- Survivor of many painful episodes and can easily fall into a victim mentality
- Strong control issues. She wants to be rescued but when things get tough, she runs.
- For Scarlett, running is not avoidance, it is an expression of her power to control her life
- Frequently misunderstood and doesn’t see her reaction as self-sabotage
- Can be seen as intimidating, though she would be shocked at that
- Highly opinionated and often passionate about world issues.
- Loves to talk about religion and politics.
- Not afraid of taking a polarizing position for a cause she loves
- Resilient…if you look resilience up in the dictionary, her picture is there
- Has had a lot of life drama…not that she causes it, but there is a string of really tough challenges.
- Natural leader and has influence over her peers
- Driven to succeed so excruciatingly difficult to take time off
- Collects professional achievements but they frustrate because the people she wishes would cheer for her won’t.
- Attracts mainly emotionally immature or closed off men yet
- Unaware that her Saboteur is terrified of emotional expression she puts relationships behind her quickly and moves on. “Tomorrow is another day.”
Saboteur Seduction Secret: Annoying people are a real drain for Scarlett and she wants you focused on their incompetence. If you spend enough time annoyed at others, you have no time and energy to work on your magnetism.
Start today to look at your annoyances differently. A simple technique practiced on the Toyota factory floor when a problem is discovered is to ask “Why?” 5 times. So, let’s say that guy cut you off on the freeway. You get mad at his stupidity. Ask yourself why it bothers you that he cut you off. Carry on and ask that question 4 more times.
Follow the train of these “Wise Whys” and you will pour out a lot of pent up energy. You will deepen your experience if you do this with pen and paper. Doing the “Wise Whys” even once a week will make a dramatic difference in your vibe.
Why Scarletts are Great Love Matches
Scarlett is exciting. Passionate about just about all aspects of life she leads the way to adventure in culture, dining and travel. When she is sure of herself and doing what she loves, she is a force to be reckoned with. Charismatic and committed, she can be seen as stubborn but her natural flirtatious style gets her what she wants.
An eye for beauty and her value of spacious surroundings leads her to create a beautiful living space. Fresh flowers and candles are important for her well being. The biggest challenge for Scarlett is to firmly decide not to over-compromise. Her drive and insecurities (which chase at her heels constantly) make her look a bit high maintenance at times. Because of that, Scarlett can stay with a guy too long. Scarlett must rely on developing her intuition and mastering her True Love Beliefs so she can ‘feel’ her way to her highest and best path.
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