Brave.
That’s what you are. You may not feel so brave, strong single that you are, but you are. You have watched friend after friend find their true love.
You have been to countless showers, wrapped dozens of gifts in white and silver paper and bows. And you keep moving forward.
So why do I stay STOP?
Simple…as Dr. Phil says, “How’s it working for you?” If you are still single, you have to stop and see what is NOT working. Face the answer to this question:
How long has it been since you have been in a significant relationship?
I bet it is a bit longer than you are consciously aware of. Time flies, doesn’t it? So what’s a savvy single to do? Here’s a thought:
How about manifesting a red hot, juicy life BEFORE you find your man? Impossible? Not on your life…
If the Universe has you in the waiting room, you might as well enjoy the time you are there. Here’s an exercise that you may find helpful:
1. Write a list of all the things you are missing out on because you are single. For example: fine dining, concerts, travel, sex or snuggling by the fire place.
2. Next to each item, write the name of the emotion you would feel if you had each experience regularly.
3. Google Thesaurus. Look up each emotion word you thought of and pick another that ‘feels’ right. The goal is to pick a word outside your typical vocabulary. I love http://VisualThesaurus.com
4. On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you crave each of these feelings in your life with your partner.
5. Now answer this question: True or False? The ONLY way in the entire Universe that you can have that feeling is when you are in a couple.
6. This is the most important step: Write a list of things you have access to right now, in your current experience, that gives you the same feeling.
7. The FEELING of being loved, accepted, adored, appreciated…happy and fulfilled is right there for you…BEFORE you find your partner….if
IF you look for it.
Remember, what you focus on expands. LOOK for good feelings right now. Treasure them. The happier you feel, the higher your vibe and a happy people are irresistible. Trust me!
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