Married three times before forty, Gia is not sure if she will ever find True Love, whatever that is.
Lonely to the core in her second marriage, Melody wonders where the magic went.
Restraining order in her hands at last, Valerie packs her bags and swears off men for good.
Have you seen your share of drama?
Many Rapunzels, through no fault of their own, have had blistering tragedies and losses to endure.
Engaged to a service man on his way to Iraq, Melinda was eagerly planning her wedding for the week after he would be home. They spoke to one another through skype over the months of his deployment and she was sure he was the one. That is until his wife called to introduce herself.
These are all true stories, names changed to protect the innocent.
For some reason, Rapunzels live more dramatic lives than most. If you can relate and find yourself still single, there is something you need to know. It is possible to trust again. True Love is out there, but….
First you have to make sure you are really over your ex.
Here is a test you can do right now to see if you are ready for new love.
1. Close your eyes and breathe deeply three or four times. Let yourself sink into the chair and relax.
2. Think about your breakup. Think about the days around the actual split. Let one event…the very worst moment…to come to your mind.
3. In the very moment it was happening, how painful was it for you on a scale of 1 to 10?
4. How much sting is still on it today? How quickly could you feel that shock and sadness all over again?
5. Put your hand on your heart and breathe again…deep breaths…. as if you are breathing through your palm and into your chest. Tell yourself, “That was then and this now. I am safe and all is well.”
You can check to see if you are Ready for Love every day. When you simply check in and flow energy into the prickliest of the memories from the past, you will feel so much better. If you look carefully, you might just find an ex three exes ago is still alive in a hurtful memory from long ago.
Remember, Sensitive Romantic Rapunzel, as lonely as you are, you also crave the peace of solitude. It is important that you get crystal clear on your non-negotiables when it comes to your living situation. Let yourself want what you want.
There’s a man out there waiting for you to get focused on what you will and will not compromise on.
If you are broken hearted right now your inner defense system is working over time to guard your heart and you may feel awful physically. Physical exercise will help you detox your body from the stress chemicals that are driving your fear, anxiety and sadness. Walking outside is the fastest and easiest way to shift your mindset and get you back on track.
Men LOVE confident women who radiate peace and well-being. Learn to let go of your fearful reactions and your resistance to love will melt away. You deserve to be loved and to be loved well.
