How Did A Breakup Sneak Up On Me?

Why do I feel stuck to you?
Why do I feel stuck to you?

 

Does your breakup history stop love from finding you?  Is fear or anger toward one of your exes stuck in your mind?

Let’s face it. Once you have gotten through an ugly breakup from a man who started out like Prince Charming and ended up like Freddy Krueger, I don’t blame you for being scared shitless.Being with the wrong man is as hard as being single.

I married a man who I didn’t know near well  enough. He was a Meanie with a capital M and it was a long tough haul.

 It took me almost three years from the moment I realized that the love was gone  to find my way out.  Today, I celebrate July 4 with a FREEDOM holler that would make my Tennessee son proud of me.

 It is a long story and I will tell bits of it as I write about my breakup.  If you are anxious about relationships and fearful of trusting again you are in the right place.  Attracting the wrong kind of men is a SURE sign that a part of you is pushing true love away.

 There is a treasure in each breakup.

A part of your heart is opened up…whether you choose the breakup or he does…and that always gives you the chance to become more of your true self.  The core of you is naturally loveable.  A breakup cracks the shell and lets light into your true wants and needs when it comes to a partner.

Come walk along and I will show you how to get through your breakup history and clear the way for love to find you.

Me?  I am a happy single girl these days. I don’t know if I will go long term again.  There was so much I didn’t see in my last man that it scares me a bit.  In the meantime, I am dating younger men and that is delicious.  I am starting life over with a new job, a new home and a bright future…single.

Do I still believe in soul mates and true love?  Yes, but I also realize now that “soul mates” and “true love” don’t always end up where you thought they would.

I will be writing blog posts designed to give you some direction on your way.  I also am looking for breakup stories to use for the blog, names changed of course.  If you have a good story to share, please do.  If I pick your story, you will receive a 20 minute Love Readiness Reading to see how ready for your new partner you really are.

One thing I know for sure.  You are stronger than you think you are.  You can stretch without breaking and that there is something better out there.  You just might have to shovel through a lot of bullshit to find it!

It’s worth it!

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