Get Free of BreakUp B.S.

Remember the episode of Sex in the City where Carrie obsessed over a breakup and told the story over and over and over…to anyone who would listen?

Why is it so hard to get over a break up and move on?

According to Thea Newcomb of http://SoYouveBeenDumped.com, “When we are reeling from a cold, hard dumping, the initial feeling that sets in is WORRY.

We worry whether anyone will ever find us attractive, whether we will have sex again, and whether we will ever find our “true love” and be happy.”

Maybe that is it, the feeling of being left is awful. Even if it is clear that the relationship is not a good fit for either person.  If it was once a highly magnetic relationship, it is hard to accept that the magic has disappeared.  What if there is no one else out there?

But you can do something about the Breakup B.S. The B. S. is the Back Story and you can do a lot about it.  When your latest breakup is aching and you are crying into your pillow, you definitely need a lot of TLC.  Check out Thea’s site, it is full of resources to support you.

I know this sucks, but once the first wave of pain is over, you can deal with your Back Story and that is the key to resetting your Love Magnet and trying again. Your past relationships are still alive in you at some level and a current breakup is the easiest way to access past emotional pain and dissolving it once and for all.

It is important to be gentle with yourself during this time. Brain scientists are finding that the same part of the brain that fires when having a crush on a new love also fires during a breakup.  No wonder it is so hard…pleasure and pain all wrapped up in one bruising package.  Ouch.

Take a quiet moment and look back, has there been a past relationship that still aches? Allow yourself to let go of as much of that past disappointment as you can.  If you need help, talk to a friend or join a Law of Attraction discussion group.  Disappointment is highly attractive and will continue to draw more of itself to your life until you change those emotional memories.

With your self esteem restored and renewed and some time under your belt, you will be ready for love again. It is worth the time to deal with your own Breakup B.S. before you try again.  Finding peace with your temporary singleness while you recover does wonders for your self concept.

As Thea says: “When I long to be part of a couple, all I need to do is look at my list of why I am happy to be single to be reminded of just how lucky I am to be flying solo (not forever, but certainly for the moment).”

If you are ready for Love and want to fire up Your Love Magnet, tune into this free download:  “5 Love Breakthrough Secrets.”
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