ewly single? “There are three rules of dating after divorce,” says Lisa Daily, author of Stop Getting Dumped! “Don’t think of yourself as damaged goods, don’t torture the new guy for your ex’s misdeeds, and even though you’re craving intimacy like chocolate cheesecake after a month of Atkins, don’t give up the goods on the first date.” Oh, and while you’re at it, steer clear of these back-on-the-market buzz kills: –