When you have been hurt badly, your own brain puts a self protection plan into action. You are actually manifesting exactly what your survival mindset sees as safe…being alone. Let me repeat that. There is a part of you that feels safest when you are alone. You are on auto pilot.
The Universe is full of examples of automatic manifestation, nature on auto pilot.
Let me repeat that: The Universe is FULL of examples of AUTOMATIC MANIFESTATION. Let me 
give you a few examples.
A dandelion seed floating in the wind doesn’t obsess about how it will grow a strong enough root to withstand multi-deweeding attempts.
A grain of sand doesn’t stress about how it will become a matching pearl on a strand on the neck of a lovely woman.
A caterpillar doesn’t worry about how it will fly thousands of miles as a Monarch butterfly.
An acorn doesn’t obsess about how it will tower over everything as an oak tree in the future.
A tadpole doesn’t stress about how it will grow four legs and hop as a frog.
A chick in the nest doesn’t worry about how it will leap from the nest and fly as an eagle.
A puppy doesn’t obsess about how it will lead a blind man across a busy street.
A redwood pine cone doesn’t stress about how a forest fire one day will release it’s seeds into the earth.
A lamb doesn’t worry about how to grow enough wool to make all the sweaters that are to come.
Are you catching my drift? There are so many examples of AUTOMATIC MANIFESTATION around us all the time. What is on automatic in your life?
Your breakup has set up automatic thoughts about what you don’t have right now and you need to address that. Who is the boss of you anyway! LOL. You have survived the worst of it and it is ok to let someone in again. (What men are really looking for.)
Now, I don’t mean to make light of your lonely situation. I know you are frustrated in your search for love but….
Focusing on the perfect way that nature replicates itself and keeps life going is a tremendous source of encouragement. You are like a seed. You are holding within your very cells promise beyond your wildest dreams.
As Dr. Wayne Dyer explains, within you is a dynamic force that is pulling you forward to your full expression. If it is true in nature, how can it not be true for YOU! So what is the problem? If you feel stuck, look back, there are usually two primary causes:
1. You are not following through with a decision that you committed to yourself to act on.
2. You are ignoring an action step that you KNOW you need to take.
You and only you are in the way of Manifesting Love. Follow what you know you could be doing to connect with your life’s purpose. Don’t hang out whining about the LOVE that isn’t here!! There is all kinds of love everywhere you look. Challenge yourself to LOOK for love.
Start your day saying this intention out loud. I guarantee it will change your perspective:
I intend to see love in all of its forms wherever I go.
A great mantra that will not let you down!
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