The Abraham Hicks Secret To Finding Love

“In other words, do you know how many men bigstockphoto_happy_couple_2382466 would flock to you…?

…if they knew that you would allow them to be as they are and you would not hold them responsible for your happiness.” Abraham Hicks

Being single in my 60s is not Plan A, for sure, but I see now that I had unfair expectations in all my former relationships. In a way, I feel bad for the guys. I wasn’t happy and I thought it was because of them.

Changing my mind about letting a man have responsibility for my happiness has been a long slow process…think of the a cruise ship doing a U-turn. Even though there have been some lonely times, there is nothing lonelier than being in a couple when your partner no longer cares.

The more I find out about what makes me happy and the more time I spend thinking about those things and how happy they make me feel, the more love I am finding…everywhere!

Every now and then, Abraham says something that I don’t immediately understand. They win me over eventually with their humor and consistency. Feeling loved and appreciated is the biggest prize of all and I couldn’t be more grateful for the simplicity of the message.  I enjoy men. I enjoy dating because I enjoy men. My goal now is to be as happy as I can be. Happiness is pretty damn irresistible!

What you think about expands. You have heard that 1000 times, I am sure. Well, I want to add a twist. How you talk about your life expands. That’s right, the words you use to tell your past romantic history and current single status radiates energy. You can make yourself more attractive by using certain words.

That is pretty simple, isn’t it? Which of these stories feel better to you?

“I will never meet anyone. I don’t want to go to bars anymore to meet people. I hate blind dates. I should have married the third guy ago. Why did I break up with him anyway. I hate eating alone. I don’t have anyone to go to the jazz concert with. I know I will be happy, once I meet my soul mate. I will never be happy single.”

OR

“Even though I don’t know how in the world I will meet my soulmate, I am open to new possibilities, I am not ready to give up. I know I am not an expert yet, but I want to feel happy and I want to notice things that make me happy every day. I may not know where my soulmate is coming from. but I know that I will be more attractive if I am enjoying life when I meet them. I wonder how we will meet? I love knowing that when we meet the happiness I feel will be familiar. I also know that feeling happy before I meet my soulmate is an inside job and I am learning every day to find things and thoughts that fill my chest with warmth. I love happiness and I want to experience more and more of it all the time.”

Which paragraph feels better to you? Try to feel how constricting the first one feels and how expansive the second one is. It is possible to begin to turn your own ocean liner around, no matter how much emotional debris you are lugging around with you!

The Law of Attraction is amazing. Simple and remarkably consistent, it cannot bring what does not resonate. Missing love in your life? The smartest thing you can do is face that and make a decision to change how YOU think and feel about love and not hope that your soulmate will adjust to you!

When a potential soulmate senses that you are the kind of person who knows that you are in charge of your own moods, emotions and ultimate happiness….they will be fascinated and drawn into your orbit. Every time. It is law.

Attracting Soulmate Candidates is the game. The next person you date doesn’t have to be the one. As long as the person is kind, respectful and open to you, it is logical to see what else is there.

Do you think your Love Magnet is strong enough to draw a soulmate into your world? If you are not sure, contact me and I will be glad to gift you with a Love Magnet Reading. I will tell you exactly why you are single.

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