To Arnold’s Other Woman,
I have something to say. I know you are just one woman who
chose one relatively famous powerful man to steal from her husband. And I further know that I have little or no patience for women who take somebody elses husband. Plus I am one of millions of Maria Shriver fans.
I am tired of women screwing with each other in this way. Arnold was clearly married. He was clearly a family man.
You used the familiarity and opportunity to behave in the most despicable way toward your fellow woman.
I know that men are weak when it comes to certain sexual favors. I appreciate that you may have found Arnold attractive, but girl….he was taken. What were you thinking? How could you look at Maria in the eyes knowing what you were doing?
How could you have stayed in their home and dishonor yourself and the family. Don’t you see what you are modelling for your children? Why do women treat each other with such utter cruelty and disregard.
Time and time again the headlines trumpet these affairs. Bill Clinton, Tiger Woods, Rudy Giuliani, John Edwards and countless more. Is it that some men have testosterone driven appetites that can’t be satisfied? My theory? It is all about blow jobs. Was that true for you?
My theory is that this particular sexual favor is long gone and forgotten years after the wedding and opportunistic, selfish and ultimately cruel women are willing to get on their knees for their 3 minutes of notoriety and favor in the eyes of a famous man.
I am not a fan of the men who cheat. I don’t make excuses for their bad behavior but I am incensed at the women in these trysts. I am sad for Maria. I am glad her parents aren’t here to see her public pain.
As for me, I am sending Maria a hug today. She is a fighter and will come through this even more loved than she is now. I hope you will pay it forward in some way and choose to make up for your careless, thoughtless choices by being kind to another woman who is suffering.
If you are reading this and you are one of those women who has a crush on a married man. Get a grip on your life and get your eyes and heart off that other woman’s man.
